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Solo Entrepreneurs: To Transform Your Business in 2011, Transform Yourself First

The holidays are over. 2010 is behind us. A New Year and a chance for a new beginning is upon us. 

To transform your business in 2011, transform yourself first.   That’s right.  As a solopreneur, you are your company and your company is you. 

Would you like to have a breakthrough year in 2011?  If so, remember the five principles of transformation:  

Principle One:  Appreciate Your Success

Last night, on New Year’s Eve, as you looked back on 2010, did you say to yourself  “I’m glad this year is over.” ?  Or, did you say “What a year I had! It was awesome.”?  How often at the end of your workday do you pat yourself on the back for a job well done?  If you’re like most entrepreneurs, probably not very often.  We’ve all become a product of the culture in which we live, one filled with negativity.  It’s on the radio, the TV, in newspapers, and magazines.  All too often, it’s the way in which we think about others…and ourselves.  Most of us are overworked, over-stressed and under-appreciated.  It’s no wonder we sometimes lose our self-confidence and our desire to keep on keeping on.

Start 2011 by ensuring you appreciate your successes and the successes of others.  When individuals are appreciated, they become confident and readily unleash new levels of creativity and productivity.  Likewise for ourselves.  By staying in touch with your successes, you generate the confidence to move on to make new things happen.

Principle Two:   Learn Your Lessons

Most of us get caught up in a never-ending cycle of productivity: we plan to work on a task or project, we act on it, then we finish it.  Our world becomes a cycle of plan, do, complete.  In the world today, most of us are masters at multi-tasking:  we have some projects in the planning stage, we’re working on others, and at the same time, we’re completing others.  We get so caught up in the rush of plan, do, complete, that we eliminate an all-important last step in this cycle of productivity: acknowledgement.  It’s crucial that you take time out to examine what’s working and what’s not, where you missed the mark and where you did things right.   By examining both what worked and what didn’t work, you can find the lessons you need to learn.  You are your own best teacher, the best source of your own wisdom.  We never really need advice and don’t like when we get it because we dislike being told what we know already!  Learn your lessons.

Principle Three:  Shift Your Limiting Beliefs and Assumptions

Each and every one of us has negative beliefs and assumptions about ourselves that we buy into completely. (“I’m too old.”  “I don’t have enough education.”  “I’m not a good sales person.”  “No one can do it as well as I can.”)  It’s time to get out of your trance and wake up to the ways in which you limit yourself.  Living inside what you believe is impossible will only limit what is possible for yourself and your business.

Fill in the blanks in the following sentence:  “I’d love to __________ in my business in 2011, but I can’t because ___________.” 

How did you fill in the blanks?  This is an example of a limiting assumption.  We all have friends and colleagues who do this to themselves.  They listen to that inner voice and put themselves down in order to justify why they can’t do something.  Do you do the same?

Make a decision that your results are more important than the reason why you can’t do something.  Design a new instruction to yourself that will get you past the reason.  Chances are if you think you can do something, you can and will.  If you believe you can’t, you won’t.

Principle Four: Live Your Values

Hiding beneath our tangible goals are the intangible goals that help us actualize our personal values.  Perhaps you have a goal for your business to increase profits by 25% in 2011.  To find your underlying personal value, go through the exercise of asking yourself the question “For the sake of what?”

For the sake of what do I want to increase profits by 25%?

“So I can have a bigger paycheck”

 

For the sake of what do I want a bigger paycheck?

“So I can take two vacations this year.”

 

For the sake of what do I want to take two vacations?

“So I can enjoy uninterrupted time with my family.”

 

Bingo!  At least one of the values underlying your desire to increase profits next year is the value of family.

Everywhere around us we see examples of high-profile people who aren’t living their values.  These individuals are being driven by negative drivers such as power and ego.  What gets you out of bed in the morning?  Are you living your values?  Make a list of the personal values you want to fully honor in the coming year.  Prioritize them.  Consciously live through and honor your values and make them more important in your life and business than negative drivers such as power, trying to looking good and gaining sympathy. 

Principle Five:  Set and Focus on Your Goals

Choose what’s most important to accomplish in your life and business this next year, record these goals, and then achieve them… no matter what.   It’s been proven that those who have written goals are more successful than those who don’t.  Take time to make a list of your top ten goals.  Each goal should be specific and measurable, with a time frame attached to it.  Review your list for any “should” goals and eliminate them.  Stop “shoulding” on yourself!  Every one of your ten goals should be in concert with your personal values and lead to the result you want at the end of the year.  Simply put, identify what you need to do in your business, and do it.

Follow the five principles of transformation in 2011.  Not only will the achievement of your goals be the normal outcome, you will develop an unshakable confidence in your ability to achieve.

Note: concepts from Best Year Yet. Used with permission.

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Change Your Thoughts to Achieve Your Goals

Yesterday I was pulling papers together for the recycle bin. I was going through a pile of old magazines and took a couple minutes out to read an article about Wayne Dyer in a year-old issue of Success Magazine. There was a quote by Dr. Dyer at the top of both pages of the article. These quotes really grabbed me so I feel compelled to share…

“You can make your life whatever you wish if you learn to make your thoughts work for you.”  I know from working with hundreds and hundreds of clients over the last dozen years (and from observing myself!) that our thoughts ultimately determine the results we get.

Your Thoughts Determine Your Actions
and Your Actions Determine Your Results

In other words, we become what we think. If you’re always thinking “I can’t,” you will be right. Dr. Dyer says most people aren’t good at attracting what they want into their lives because their thoughts are always focused on what’s wrong, what’s missing, and the problem.

Change your thoughts to achieve your goals.

I agree with him. Every day I talk with individuals who – unknowingly – have trained their minds to focus on the negative. In my work with individuals and in my coaching groups, I use the world-renowned Best Year Yet system. An integral part of this system is acknowledgement and so I begin every session with the question “What have you accomplished?” It sometimes seems as though that is the most difficult question in the world to answer. The majority of people want to start with the negative, or they’ll state something positive and immediately follow it with a “but…” It’s literally as though they have trained themselves only to think of the negative. I think for some, focusing on the negative has become a habit.

The good news is we have the ability to change our thinking. It may not happen overnight, but little by little, you can do it. The first step is to become aware of your thoughts. When you think about yourself, do you spend more time pondering the difficulties in your life, or do you spend more time envisioning the accomplishment of your goals? Become a brilliant observer of yourself. Here’s an exercise you can try: become aware of the words that come out of your mouth following the 2 words “I am.” Do you hear words such as afraid, tired, a failure, overwhelmed?  If so, make a conscious effort to change those thoughts and words. Instead, use words like brilliant, happy, filled with energy.

Another practice you can utilize to help change your thinking is to answer the question “What have I accomplished?” at the end of every day. Think about all the good things you did that day, any successes you had – no matter how small (or big!), anything you feel good about or are proud of. If the word “but” comes into your mind, simply cancel it.

Dr. Dyer says “To change the way you think about your life and create success for yourself, you need to put your attention on what you intend – what you intend to create – what you intend to manifest.”

Here’s my challenge to you: starting right now, simply become aware of your negative thoughts. Catch them and let them go. Awareness brings its own rewards.

Change your thoughts. Change your life.

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