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Burn Your Boat – by John Boe

Note from the Goal Diva: today's post begins a series of articles by guest authors. Enjoy!

I believe that the great NFL Hall of Fame coach, Vince Lombardi, had it right when he said, "The quality of a person's life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor." Do you agree with Coach Lombardi, or are you the type of person who has difficulty staying focused and keeping commitments? Do you allow the negative influences of fear, anxiety, self-doubt and worry to dominate your thinking and sabotage your results?

Sadly, most people fail to achieve their goals, not because they're lazy or lack self-motivation, but because they were never "fully committed" to succeed! I can't think of a single great achievement that has ever been attained without first a plan of action and then an unshakable commitment to its accomplishment. Walt Disney was arguably one of the most creative dreamers and determined men of the twentieth century. Walt understood the power of commitment and would frequently tell those around him, "When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionably."

The ancient Greek warriors were both feared and respected by their enemies. In battle, the Greeks established a well-deserved reputation for their unsurpassed bravery and unshakable commitment to victory. The key to their overwhelming success on the battlefield had far more to do with how the Greek commanders motivated the warriors than it did with issues of tactics or training. The Greeks were master motivators who understood how to use a "dramatic demonstration" to infuse a spirit of commitment into the heart of every warrior. Once the warriors had been offloaded from their boats onto their enemy's shore, the Greek commanders would shout out their first order…"burn the boats!" The sight of burning boats removed any notion of retreat from their hearts and any thoughts of surrender from their heads. Imagine the tremendous psychological impact on the soldiers as they watched their boats being set to the torch. As the boats turned to ash and slipped quietly out of sight into the water, each man understood there was no turning back and the only way home was through victory.

In your sales career your battles are not fought with weapons on foreign shores, but within the confines of your own mind. A truly committed salesperson does not have the luxury or the time for the self-indulgence of negative thinking. The true underlying motivation for all success is a deep and unwavering commitment to the task at hand. The sales profession is a demanding and challenging career, but it is also personally rewarding and financially lucrative for those who are fully committed to becoming successful. If you are being pushed around mentally by thoughts of fear, anxiety, self-doubt and worry, it's time to "burn your boat" and become fully committed to your sales career!

"Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, and then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now."

                                                        – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

John Boe presents a wide variety of motivational and sales-oriented keynotes and seminar programs for sales meetings and conventions. John is a nationally recognized sales trainer and business motivational speaker with an impeccable track record in the meeting industry. To have John speak at your next event, visit his website at johnboe.com or call 937-299-9001 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting.             

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Top Goals

Our Top Goals Are Also Our Common Disappointments

If I were to ask you right now, point blank, what are your personal disappointments from the last year, could you easily list them?  Most people can.

The foundation of much of my work is a planning and implementation system called Best Year Yet. The initial planning session is a ten-question process resulting in a one-page  plan for the next year.  One of the questions requires participants to make note of disappointments over the past twelve months.

Most often, the list of disappointments is written quickly and with little challenge.  Individuals are almost never hard-pressed to remember what they didn’t do well, who or what disappointed them, or the mistakes they made.  With hundreds and hundreds of individuals having participated in this process with me, there have been recurring themes in the disappointments listed. These disappointments just happen to correspond to top goals.

When it comes to the disappointments that are common among us, it’s rare for an individual not to have listed something about health and fitness.  Disappointments range from “I gained 20 pounds,” to “I didn’t work out” and everything in between.

Top Goals Are Often Around Money

Is one of your top goals around money?

Another common theme is around money. Usually it’s not making enough, not saving enough, or spending too much.  The third area in which most participants voice dissatisfaction is time spent with loved ones.  It’s never enough.

Looking back over this past year, do you share these common disappointments?  If so, know that you’re not alone.  At the same time, it’s high time to do something about it.  Easier said than done, but no excuses. Are you willing to take the necessary steps?

Most challenges such as this are best handled one step at a time.  First gain a complete understanding of your current scenario, including what’s going on in your head. What are your limiting beliefs about this situation? Start by asking yourself some questions.  Here are some examples to help you get started:

~~What is it that prevents me from making and keeping an appointment with myself to go to the gym?

~~How would I feel if I lost those twenty pounds?

~~What’s in it for me if I improve my fitness level?

~~What’s in it for my friends and family if I improve my fitness level?

~~What do I want to accomplish in terms of my health?

~~What is it that I’m allowing to get in the way?

Armed with a complete understanding of the situation as it now exists and the limits you’ve placed on yourself, next imagine the scenario you’d prefer.  Take a few minutes, close your eyes and daydream. Perhaps you’re visioning yourself in the best shape of your life.  What does it feel like?  What does it look like?

You’re now ready to set the goals that will help to make your vision a reality. First make sure your goals are specific and measurable, and then break them down into action items.

Finally, the last step is about doing.  Commit to your action steps.  Need to be held accountable?  Share your goals with someone who cares and ask them to check with you on a weekly basis to see how you’re doing.

What top goal do you want to ace this year? What common disappointment do you want to cross off your list once and for all?  Is it about health and fitness, money, spending time with loved ones?  Select one and get started today.

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